39 ~ It’s going to get chilly again this week, so let’s light a fire together.

Good day to you,

It’s was a rough winter and continues to be a chilly spring and I’m honestly just trying to find my person to hopefully find a spark with and get a nice roaring fire going. I will preface this by saying this is not some AI written bullshit. It’s my words and thoughts in case you might be wondering. So I will start off by stating that I would love to find someone to form a deep emotional and pleasurable connection with. I’m looking for that slow candle burn and not a flash in the pan. I have come to the realization that I’m just hardwired different. What I desire and find curious might scare most away. I’m hoping that feeling resonates with you. Lately I have found my appetite for knowledge quenched by reading the salacious or extreme. I think I would love to get to know someone over a common love and interests like books, podcasts, and caffeine. Also have to throw the conditional statement about this not wanting to change anyone’s situation.

From first impressions, I would describe myself as a fairly benign and nerdy given my preference to wear glasses. I’m married with a couple of kids(teens), cats, and dogs. I would describe myself to be of average height with a muscular build . My defining feature would have to be my legs and broad shoulders given my interest in lifting. I have darker features with a clean cut look. I would consider myself to be left leaning politically and have a few guilty pleasures. One of them happens to be caffeine(coffee). The other would have to be the my local library. I think because it’s spooky and mysterious at the same time. Not many of us left but I enjoy reading hardcover books!

The person I’m looking to connect with should preferably be married with or without children. Hopefully educated and well rounded. More than anything I’m hoping that you are open minded and open to connect over a variety of different topics like fiction, philosophy, and life in general. I’m also looking for someone that is non judgmental. I have dipped my toes in a lot of things many consider to be taboo. I’m hoping that you are a confident individual that is spunky and willing to go with the flow. Lastly given the state of our country I’d prefer if you view yourself as a centralist or slightly left leaning.