39 Looking for a Bestie with Benefits

Hi, I'm here seeking for my bestie with benefits!

A person to share absolutely everything with! Details about our days, secrets, sarcasm, and memes. To be a shoulder to cry on and an ear to vent.

Ultimately I'm looking for friendship first. A crazy concept in this space, I know! But it's an important component for the "benefits" part to work.

The perfect match will be smart, witty and funOntario. Bonus points if you're opinionated, sarcastic and have a pretty smile!

Please, No Trumpers! Empathy and kindness are very important to me.

A bit about me. I'm 39, tall (6'2), educated, clean-cut, and have an athletic build. Sorry no dad bod here. I often get compliments on my smile. I'm a former college athlete who enjoys staying active and playing sports, but not so much watching them on TV. I'm a business owner and very passionate about my career. But most importantly I'm a proud girl dad!

I enjoy traveling, reading, exercising, hiking, trying new restaurants, wine, all kinds of movies (even rom-coms!), and did I mention traveling? I get on a plane at least once a month and have probably been to your city once or twice.

My close friends would describe me as kind, witty, passionate, and driven, with a "glass-half-full attitude," but you can decide that for yourself once you get to know me! I have been to therapy, and I like to think I'm emotionally intelligent and thoughtful with my responses.

My love language is words of affirmation. You can bet I'll always make you feel desired and most importantly, seen. And, yes! I will call you "beautiful" and even "good girl" if that's your thing! I'm a big fan of praising the person I'm with.

While I am interested in naughtiness, I understand that there is a human being on the other side. I'm not expecting you to be my personal OnlyFans creator.

I'm very realistic, discreet, and respectful. No drama, no jealousy, and no life-ruining chaos. I'm not looking to change your situation or blow up your life. I will always respect you, your family, and your career while maintaining any boundaries we set.

If you’re up for a dynamic mix of good conversations, laughter, flirtatious banter, and spiciness, then stop lurking already! Send me a message!

You can break the ice telling me what show or movie you have recently enjoyed!