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I’m looking for someone in a similar situation to me: settled and actually pretty happy with life. But missing a certain something that used to be there to give life a spark. I don't want to change my situation, in fact I’m not even sure where I even want this post to go! But I find myself lurking this sub and looking at the posts, so that must mean something right? Maybe you’re lurking right now?

FWIW I’m 6’2”, white with an average to dadbod build. I’m told I’m attractive… no Adonis or anything but I haven’t had trouble meeting women. Hopefully you’re in a similar situation.