43 Ontario, looking for a friend or ideally a companion

Hello!

I’m looking to make a genuine connection with someone kind, compassionate, and a little like me. Ideally you’re in Ontario and around a similar age.

A bit about me:

I’m neurodivergent (AuDHD) and an introvert, happiest with a quiet night in over a loud social scene. I do struggle with social anxiety and general anxiety, so I’d like to start off with a virtual friend. If we hit it off, and hopefully you’re close enough, I’d like to work towards meeting in person. Despite my anxiety, I'm quite chatty virtually, and once I get to know someone am much more relaxed, have a great sense of humour, and am light hearted.

Despite the above, I have a steady, secure job, my own home and would seem from the outside to be a normal, fairly successful, well put together person. I've masked for so long and become so good at it that you would never know.

I recently lost my sweet dog to cancer, so fellow dog lovers are very welcome — I could use someone who understands that kind of grief.

I’m divorced with no kids, and there’s no drama attached. I'd prefer you also single and don’t have children — I find I connect better with people in a similar stage of life.

I enjoy travel (especially to Europe), history, museums, old architecture, and evening strolls, but I’m not overly into group outings — one-on-one is more my thing.

Into sci-fi, especially space-focused things. I recently read the Murderbot Diaries (and just started watching the tv show) and am currently enjoying the Bobiverse series. I’m also a big fan of Andy Weir (can’t wait for the Project Hail Mary movie!).

I like movies, sports, and TV, but I don’t make them my entire identity.

I’m in reasonable shape, but am trying to exercise more and get in better shape — it’d be great if you’re on a similar journey so we can motivate each other. I’ve started cycling, walking, dead lifting and doing other weights.

I’ve been exploring naturism recently — I’d love to befriend someone who’s open-minded or even curious. No pressure at all to participate; but hopefully you’ll be understanding, encouraging and supportive.

I value kindness, empathy, and being non-judgmental. That’s what I offer, and what I’m hoping to find in return.

If any of this resonates, feel free to send a message or chat.