48 Online Let's catch fire and keep each other warm as the days grow cold

Where I am, it's finally starting to get colder, feel like Autumn (and sometimes winter), which totally makes me wish I was sitting by a fire every night.

**Step One - Collect the Wood**

I'm a 48 year old married chick with no kids and a crazy job. I don't keep "normal" hours, being up front. A good morning text may come at 6 pm, etc. I'm blonde, average height, chubby/overweight/whatever you wanna call me, hidden tattoos, a slightly crooked smile, yada yada. I'm super left-leaning and don't play well with Republicans. Love all music except country, geek out about hockey and history and horror movies, love to read, travel, and cook. Filth-wise? I'm super open-minded and don't yuck most yums. I'm invisible in real life, and want to be seen. I hate hiding who I really am.

You? You're around my age, similar situation. Open-minded, want to be seen, etc. I can't stress enough how much being able to compartmentalize is key. If you're only going to suddenly feel guilty and run away, find a religious confessional, not a filthy one.

**Step Two - Light the Flame**

Scour my history, message me, or whatever you want to do. I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but if I am, then drink deeply. Maybe we'll sate each other's aching thirst. Ya never know, right?

So bundle up, scooch close, and let's huddle together around the fire. We can share secrets, let hands wander, and we won't even notice the cold. I'd even share a marshmallow, if you ask nicely...

Step Three could be lots of fun with the right person.

I'll be busy most of the day, so don't fret if I don't message back immediately.

Cheers!