54 suburb County, PA married but searching for my person for an AP

What if one message could be the beginning of feeling wanted and help to fill the void...

Married, 54, searching for one man over 40 who is missing affection and intimacy. I am not interested in ONS or just sex.

Searching for a unicorn, but what do we have if we don't have hope? I am seeking companionship, kindness, intimacy, connection, good conversation, and someone who listens at least as much as he talks.

I am looking for my person. I want to desire someone and be desired in return. Please be willing to invest and be intentional.

Sex is fleeting and is just sex without an emotional connection. It is that connection where intimacy blooms. And what a beautiful thing to experience the safety, contentment, and sexual satisfaction of intimacy.

I'm looking for regular communication by texting and calling. This is a non negotiable. This means more than good morning and good night texts, although those are most welcome. I want to get to know you and texting and calls help accomplish that. I'm not implying that we need to be in touch constantly, but I want to be thought of and told that and I will do the same. And as our schedules allow I would like to stay connected with witty banter to deep talks to supporting one another through our struggles.

I am in a marriage with no intimacy as well as other issues. I am not able to leave for the time being and the loneliness feels overwhelming. I'm interested in a man who is not currently intimate with his wife or girlfriend. Daytime during the week will work best when we decide to meet.

Although there needs to be a physical attraction for this to work, I am much more interested in seeing a man's heart than his private parts right off the bat. So if you're into sending nudes immediately or posting them publicly, we are not a good match. Also, smoking is a no for me as well as arrogance. A big ego is a dealbreaker.

I am not thin, I am overweight and I understand that's a dealbreaker for a lot of men who are looking for model types. I've had some health struggles and am working to get healthier. I am loving, kind, supportive, a good listener, and like to laugh and dish out sarcasm.

I enjoy humor, kissing, long hugs, sunsets, and a man who can be both strong and gentle. I believe in being authentic and down to earth and am looking for the same. Please message me if you'd like to chat and see if there's a spark.