Picky 4 Picky

Tossing this up but here's who I am follow but what I'm looking for ...

* I'm 30, white, married, have 2 young boys
* Happy with my marriage, but the sex is lacking in both frequency and quality (adventure)
* I'm a business professional who works from home with a flexible daytime schedule (occasional evenings)
* That said, I stay busy. I do look to form a friendship and chat and get-to-know-you and all that, but no "dates", no emotional connections, and no talking about feelings for one another (danger zone). Strict boundaries there.
* I'm 6'0" and very fit/muscular and conventionally attractive ... I catch women (and sometimes dudes) eye-fucking me
* I have a personality, am a great conversationalist, and have a good sense of humor.
* I'm very secure with my OPSEC

I am looking for ...

* Married woman, white/Asian (preferred) - Don't have to have kids but it would help in understanding the day-to-day battle
* Also happy in marriage and not looking for any emotional relief, let alone change in circumstances
* Profession doesn't necessarily matter, but daytime availability is required
* Not needing to chat every hour of every day - Don't be shocked/feel insecure if we go a few days without communicating. Life happens and moods around this lifestyle change (but often comes back). I'll be honest about where we stand at all time.
* Please be in good shape and also attractive. There is risk in this and the juice has to be worth the squeeze (but I do like to squeeze 😉). I will want to exchange photos pretty much right away.
* For the times we do get to conversate, please be able to conversate. Speak in sentences longer than 3 words. Engage me (trust me, I'll engage you)
* Also be secure with OPSEC
* West burbs of the Twin Cities so that when the urge to meet comes up, it's not a logistical hassle

If the above is you, let's mingle!