Are you unsure of how much of you to put into this too?

I'm trying my best to find a middle ground between "I'm here just to flirt and maybe talk dirty" and "I'm starved enough for affection that long distance codependence sounds comforting."

Writing down the latter doesn't make this look pretty and will likely put many people off, I know, but it's how I feel sometimes.

I don't wanna go on about my relationship, both not to try and make a therapist out of you, as well as for privacy sake. Because of this, I'm afraid pictures and voice calls are off the table but I'm terminally online due to a mix of work and absolutely no life whatsoever outside of it so at least I can guarantee you that I'll always reply as soon as possible and not keep this a 9-5 kind of conversation.

The relevant details are the usual suspects: long term relationship, dead bedroom. Partner is career-oriented enough that it's affecting even our (little) time together.

This, coupled with a few other factors, has affected my mental health, my self esteem, as well as my libido so I'm pretty much a depressed, needy man who's desperate for intimacy.

I'm not young and I'm hoping you're not either, so I'm not looking for someone to talk about the weather or make small talk with. I wanna have deep, emotional conversations about our needs. I want someone who's not afraid to lay their cards on the table and ask me to see the beauty in their flaws, because I sure hope you can appreciate mine.