being denied orgasm makes me very submissive

So, I bought a chastity cage recently... I've been watching chastity porn for a long time and fantasizing about being locked up. I don't know why this turns me on so much but I have a theory. Outwardly I'm quite masculine and in charge. I lead a rather large team, I am big, and people just kind of look to me to make deicisions. But deep down I'm incredibly submissive. I crave to be humiliated, tied up, spanked, teased, and used in the most degrading ways... try to hide these desires, even from myself, but when I'm denied orgasm, they become overpowering.

Speaking of taking control... this is where I need you. Its been over a week since I last came, and my submissive side is pounding on the door. If left to my own devices, I'll probably watch porn and cum and go back to pretending to be "normal". But if you like, I'll stay denied for you. Fair warning though, I will become very needy and obedient. Very easy to take advantage of. I become so compliant that even though I'm straight, I start desiring to serve men too.

In the interest of full disclosure, am in a relationship. My is somewhat aware of this side of me, but has no desire to engage with it. I'm all yours if you want.