Can you compartmentalize?

I can …

Or, at least, I have been able to in the past.

Yeah, I’ve done this before. I’ve had two really positive long-term affairs with great people. I’ve been really lucky.

Can it happen again? I’m dubious but hopeful.

Striking that emotional balance can be really tricky, but I feel like I’m good at it. My home life and my role as a father are extremely important to me, but I also have a lot to give to a potential AP. I’m a good friend, listener, and lover.

I also have a shitload of Arby’s bucks, so we can go out for a nice dinner any time you want. 😎

I’m tall (6’ 2”), fit, white, bearded and outdoorsy/active. I’m also intellectually curious and culturally engaged (even beyond Arby’s).

It’s a lovely spring night and I’m home alone (such a rarity). Feels so peaceful. Life is pretty good. I wish I had someone fun to text with. Does that appeal to you?

I want to learn all about you. Are you ok with some armchair psychology? It’s one of my hobbies 🤓

Ok, enough of my rambling. Hope you’re having a good week. Thanks for reading this.