Central - Affectionate BBW Seeking (Relatively) Local Man for a Long Term Connection

Is it bad to admit that I’m not sure if I have anything new and exciting to share for my catchy opening sentence?

It’s not that I don’t think a quality intro line is important; I do! Maybe it’s just because it’s been a long week (which it has). Maybe it’s because I’ve tried the witty attention-grabber in the past and I’m not sure it made an impression.

But I suspect it’s more about being so ready for a new relationship that I don’t want to bury the lead… And I am. So. Ready. Is anyone else ready to move beyond all the nonsense - the ghosters, the poor communicators, the indecisive and insincere - and plain get to the good part already?

I’m hoping to connect with a like-minded, experienced, age-peer who is interested in a long-term AP relationship. Being on similar, if not the same, page would be great: also married, also a parent, not miserable at home, but there is definitely something lacking. A man who is kind and passionate, confident without taking himself too seriously, likes to laugh and isn’t afraid of emotion.

A little about me: 46, married Mom to one kiddo who works FT; I’m 5’9” and a BBW/genuinely plus-sized woman. Very affectionate, warm, silly at times, serious when warranted, naughty. Always have a big smile and a hug for those I care about.

Just so we don’t waste each other’s time:

\* Communication is the glue with all of this. I’m looking for a relationship; not a FWB. Of course, family and friends and work all come first; but, regular texts and phone/video calls when we can manage it is important. (Ugh, and no Snapchat.)

\* Availability is also key! I’m sure we’re both busy; family and friends and work will always come first - but I believe in making myself available for the things I want.

\* Physical aspects aren’t everything, but we all have our preferences, right? Please be taller than I am. (Yes, it matters even when we’re horizontal. I’m sorry!)

\* Familiarity with a relationship like this is needed, such as the importance of logistics, separate finances and discretion.

I’m ready to put in the time and make the effort for one man. So say hello. Let’s chat and swap stories - I bet we have plenty! Let’s become friends. Confidants. Lovers.

Let’s be the reason we smile for (seemingly) no reason at all.