Lack of passion, kinks and romantism

I'm a 38-year-old man, married for 11 years. For the past two years, I've completely lost contact with my wife. I try my best to be romantic, but no matter what I do, she's not happy. I send her flowers every week, but she says I never send her flowers; I buy her gifts, but she acts like I don't; I plan trips and vacations together, but she says we don't do anything.

I help with all the housework, but she says I don't do anything. I just want to hear affection and sweet words from her, but whenever I bring it up, she blames me. I just want to spend time with her, intimacy, passion; I have no other desires, but she's distancing herself from me.

Instead of trying, I'm now looking for someone to fill this void with, someone to have romantic conversations with, someone we can complement each other's shortcomings with, someone we can flirt with. If you're someone who will make me smile when I receive a message, please reply with "hello."