let’s go! I know you’re out there. Cute/smart/lalala

I realize asking for monogamy in affair territory is objectively kind of hilarious, but honestly that’s what I want. One person. One connection that actually matters. I want the kind of thing where we’re both excited to see each other, excited when the other person texts, and it slowly starts to grow in the best way.

About me: 6’2, married, kids, driven, decent face, nice hair, good sense of humor, emotionally aware enough to know when a conversation is going nowhere. PST!

I’m looking for something real between two people who are searching for what they feel they’re missing. Not endless chatting with no intention behind it and not trying to collect attention from a dozen different people at once either. I’d rather invest energy into one connection that actually feels easy and natural.

I’m drawn to feminine women with personality, humor, confidence, and a little self awareness. You don’t need to be perfeOntario, just someone who takes care of herself and doesn’t worry about calories ruining their life. Huge bonus if you can flirt, laugh at yourself, and keep a conversation flowing naturally. You probably are confused how you ended up on this site looking at AP’s. You’re also probably a little weird.

Communication matters a lot to me. I’m driven in my career and work gets busy sometimes, but I don’t use that as an excuse to disappear or leave someone guessing. Just communicate where you’re at and if you need to disappear that’s okay. Just say so… I’m super understanding.

I also want this to eventually exist outside of this site. Pictures early is preferred because attraction matters and pretending otherwise feels weird. And while I take this seriously, I don’t want it to feel like a job interview or another chore added to life. The best connections usually feel effortless.

Not looking for extreme politically, hot / cold games, or someone drowning in guilt about being here. I’d rather meet someone fun, intentional, emotionally mature, and genuinely excited about building something that we both look forward to. If any of this resonated with you then I look forward to reading your first message. Just say / do the first thing that comes to mind.