Looking for a lifelong companion for a life simple

\*Sorry, but I don't reply to really short messages or to those with new accounts/throwaways\*

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I'm 28, an INFJ and i'm looking for a rare type of relationship. I have mild autism and i'm unable to work most jobs, so i'm on disability benefits. I understand a lot of you wont like that, but i don't either. My dream is to have my own bakery/patisserie as I love baking and creating things. I'm gaining more independence and going out more- I can now go to a few different places by myself and go grocery shopping etc. The sense of freedom I feel is priceless, but I still find it difficult. I also set up a support group, so I go to that weekly.

I love animals (currently have a new hobby of feeding the birds/birdwatching), nature, music, gardening, reading and Disney. My favourite place would be Disney World, although its tricky with my autism but there is no place quite like it. Hoping to go back soonish for my 30th. One day my dream is to have a conservatory (I've wanted one since I was a little kid) so I can sit there and watch the birds at the feeders, with a cup of tea :)

I'm someone who has strong convictions- an example i hate animal cruelty. I love all kinds of creatures- from dogs to cats, to seagulls and spiders. They feel pain and fear just like us, so why shouldn't we protect and care for them?

I like a guy who is more effeminate and more in touch with their emotions. An animal lover is a must, too. If you're a Disney fan then you get bonus points :)

I'm a very deep, introverted person and i can only connect with similar people. If you're an extrovert, we probably wouldn't be a good match. I like peace and quiet and spend a lot of time at home reading or going for a nice walk.

I'm looking for a serious long term relationship- someone to grow old with. I value personality over looks -i'm attracted to intelligent, deep people. I don't want kids. I would rather be alone than settle for a relationship that I wasn't happy in and have pretty much accepted that it's highly likely I will be alone for the rest of my life, but i'm hoping there is someone reading this who feels like I do and can relate, thus hopefully a miracle occurs.