Looking for connection

I've been married to my wife for a few years and we have lived together for the last 7 years. Being up front, I don't want to change my situation and ideally looking for someone who isn't looking to change theirs either / someone who wants to be a little more than just friends. With that being said...

I'm looking for someone I can feel connected to again, someone that automatically gives me a smile each time I see a message from them. Someone that is not only attracted to me, but I'm also attracted to them. I want to be able to go out and do something with someone again, or at least have a hobby in common we could do together. Right now all my wife does is work and come directly home and watch TV until bedtime. She has no interest in doing anything anymore outside of that, which also leads to a dead bedroom. I feel I'm at the age where I need to start reaching out for happiness, and I really want to be happier than I currently am. Maybe you aren't just being satisfied, maybe you want more attention, maybe you just even need a break for a change. I'm not one to judge and don't care what your situation is.

I'm 6'1 tall, 235lbs, white, short brown hair and no facial hair. I'm clean, don't smoke or have any substance abuse problems, and would prefer you to be the same.