looking for my spark

My life is really simplified into just always putting out fires. I’m sure a lot can relate. I pour from my empty cup to extinguish the fires around me and just hope I have enough water for the next one. So what if I started a fire myself? What if instead of pouring from an empty cup I filled that cup with lighter fluid.

As an air sign it makes sense that I want to breathe life into the fire. I just need help with the spark. I need something sustaining that is passionate and intellectual. I need someone who can keep up with my highs and lows. I need someone who makes me feel excited and sparkly again.

About me: Married. Casual and laid back. Thiccc. Short. Average looks. On a journey of self discovery and exploration. I love to cook and read. I’ve been told I’m funny but I’ll leave that up to you. Not looking to change our situations. Been here before, took a break, now I’m back. Demisexual.

About you: Intelligent. Kind. Patient. Emotionally mature. I don’t do clingy. Not a douche canoe. Critical thinker. Able to have deep discussions that don’t end in your untamed libido.. unless it fits.

Sexually: I am looking for a slow burn. I don’t wanna dive in right away. I can find that anywhere. I’m looking for a bit more depth that can grow into something more passionate.

Fill my cup and I’ll fill yours. 🔥💕