Looking for recurring hook up

Heyy, I'm a 40 year old curvy asian mom of 2 in the Valley, recently divorced and single for the first time in like 20 years. The dating world has changed A LOT and I'm just now starting to dip my toe into different apps and stuff, but it's hard because my life is already pretty full but I definitely still have physical needs and desires that haven't gone away, so I'm looking for someone who I could meet up with maybe once or twice a week for physical intimacy and purely sexual fun.

I'm really into oral, both giving and receiving but mostly giving. I like all the regular stuff too, plus fantasies and I'm looking forward to some experimenting maybe. I've also enjoyed anal in the past but my ex wasn't into it so it would be nice to try that again.

The kind of guy I'm looking for is clean and safe. I'm 100% disease free and healthy, so that's something I'm going to be really careful to maintain. But in terms of physical qualities he could be bigger, smaller, older, younger, any race - just not a smoker.

I'm 5'5" and have some extra weight to lose, but people say my best features are my smile/lips and my booty lol. So if you're interested, please send me a thoughtful message and I'll get back to you. It can be a dirty message too, but please make sure it's thoughtful.