48 Griping the wheel, his knuckles went white with desire

I'm 48 and live in Ontario. I'm educated and work in a professional role in healthcare. In addition, i'm a veteran of the Army/Army National Guard, serving a little over 20 years. I'm not one that put in excessive hours working as a work life balance is of utmost importance.

I find myself in a dead bedroom situation, where we'd likely both acknowledge that we're staying in it for our daughter. However not looking for a change, eventhough my current situation is unilaterally unsupportive. That despite my best efforts, whatever I do or try seems be wrong. Maybe I'm just that bad at things, but I find that less plausible.

Looking for engaging chat about anything and everything, while eliminating any judgement, but striving to further understand any points of contention. I process a broad spectrum of knowledge, but have only ever been semi-decent at trivia.

I have generally maintained fitness, but injuries within the past couple years left me some work to do. Instead of 6"1 210lbs short brownish hair, blue eyes, I find myself 240-250 working to get back into the right fitness routine. I've previously ran half marathons and enjoyed kick boxing.

Seeking one who will engage in meaningful conversation to that thought provoking that spans small talk to intimacy. While some topics will grow more comfortable as we get to know each other. I look forward to learning new things and, continue to grow as a person overall.