my last ditch effort

I'm so disheartened and feel very dejected in trying to find a decent man that might provide me with some kind of a meaningful connection that involves love, sex and everything a real relationship entails. I'm in a severe dead bedroom that has lasted for 10 years. I have been looking for a good-hearted man to connect with for over a year now and have been VERY unsuccessful. This is my last-ditch effort posting here.

I'm going to lay it out straight to you. I'm considering divorcing my SO in the near future after our kid is done with their high school and is in college. But I have NO intentions of marrying anyone again. I have plans to travel the world next year when things go back to "normal", post-COVID , and do other things on my bucket list. But meanwhile, I would like it if I can find a man whom I can connect with and be intimate in a loving and caring way, be best friends and lovers.

**You may be a single man, or divorced, or you may be looking for an exit affair because you are in a DB. You are between 30 and 55. You are intelligent and witty. I value intelligence in a man more than his looks or his money or his success. If you are a scientific minded critical thinker, with good logical reasoning, then it cannot get better than that. If you are looking for a travel partner to travel with, in the future, then all the more fun! I'm looking for the WHOLE PACKAGE. Love, sex and friendship. Please don't hesitate to inbox me!**