Ovid

It's been a long time since I was active in this site. Found some solid connections here in the past. I had a long term affair end several months ago and am ready to dip my toe back in and see what is out there. I'm not sure what I am looking for today....maybe something that lasts a few hours. Maybe a few days. Maybe longer. I like the idea of no pressure and see what builds from there. I am 34, in the PST, married, a parent. I don't want to change my situation at home at all.. but I want to find someone that adds the vibrant colours that my life lacks.

Maybe that is you? It might be if you are near my age, married/long term relationship, probably a parent. I am relatively attractive and attraction is important to both of us, so you likely are considered cute/handsome/attractive too. I take care of myself and put effort into my appearance and I want you to as well. I spend a decent amount of time in the gym, but also really like pizza on occasion. Most importantly - you'll need to be able to hold and carry a conversation with me and you'll need to be down to have an actual adult human conversation long before the sexual side comes out.

What will you get in return? I'm someone who likes consistent communication and I will put in lots of effort and time. No one word answers or leaving you on read from me. I can hold my own in conversation about most sports (and will likely talk shit about your teams if they're different from mine). I won't ghost you if it's not going well. I am clever and witty and a little sassy. I like to flirt and you will spend a lot of time smiling. I will show up and let you get to know who I really am and try to know who you really are. I will do my best to really get to know you and show up in the ways you want and need from a partner in this beautiful abyss that is online affairs.

If you read all of this and are still interested, send me a message. I don't really care what you include in your first message but if it's copied and pasted or low effort I probably won't respond. I put in effort to write this post and I want you to put in effort when responding.