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UPDATED 06 JANUARY 2019

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General Advice On Posting

For new people to the whole adultery thing. There is a common accepted practice on how to go about looking and what to expect in terms of communicating. Generally leading with a picture is not the best thing. For most it conveys the idea that you have no idea what OPSEC is (meaning how to keep this all discrete). If you are blasting out pics then you are a risk to yourself and your potential partner. Being cautious and slow to send pics may cost you an AP or two but the one that does continue will appreciate your demonstration of discretion all the more. NOTE: Some people succeed with leading with pics. I argue that this method is intentionally looking For someone who is looking for that. Still in this way they are using the pics to screen for the right person.

The generally accepted method of communication, is to post on NFN (or other site...but why go anywhere else?). Then get a PM. COmmunicate for a bit and then move to social media like Kik, wicker, or other app. Posting the list of apps in your ad does not display attraction. It doesn’t show how much more savvy you are. It’s meaningless trivia. Don’t mention them all. When the time is right just say ”why yes...I do have kik”.