rookie error, so here’s take 2 of not being a lurker

I had seen the posts talking about posts getting slammed with responses, but holy hell, I didn’t expect that. So this is no longer a one and done, but I got overwhelmed and just started ignoring everything. Basically, I want a do over. Now that I’m prepared for what’s gonna happen, let’s try this again. Shall we?

So, who am I? Apparently, someone who avoids self-created problems, but we can unpack that one later. Otherwise, I like being active and can rarely sit still for over 30 minutes. Seriously, the standing desk is a blessing and why I’m still employed. Speaking of employed, I am career driven and have invested time in school and training to get to where I am now. Physically, I’m tall, brown hair, and blue eyes with an athletic body. I enjoy being outside, working out, hiking, cycling, swimming, working in the yard, and generally finding ways to take care of myself. And also burning off the millions of calories I consume, because I love food. Eating/cooking/baking should really be the next love language, because the way to my heart really is through my stomach.

What I’m looking for: Someone also in your 30s, married, tall, fit, enjoy taking care of yourself, not a couch potato. I’d like to get to know you as a person, so consistent communication is important. I’m not picky about time zones, but I would prefer someone in the US. While you don’t need to be a workaholic, I connect best with other driven people, generally in a white collar profession. A life outside of work is important as well, and I want to hear all about it.

Like many on here, my marriage isn’t terrible, so I’m not looking to change my situation (or yours for that matter). That being said, there are certain areas that are lacking, and I’m hoping to find someone to fill those gaps. The spark, the butterflies, the connection, whatever you want to call it, but I want the good mornings and good nights, chatting past our bedtime, the random pictures throughout the day, and the voices notes and calls.

If you think we might mesh well, send me a chat with an introduction, physical description, your favorite playlist, and if you call them “soda,” “pop,” or “coke”? Random, but I’m hoping it will help cut through the noise.

I like telegram or discord if we hit it off, but Snapchat is a no go for me. Hope to chat soon!