27 Looking for firm hands and a soft heart

Hi there stranger! 😊💗

I am looking for someone who can be both, a dom who takes charge, \*and\* a genuine friend I can play video games with and just have a good time around. I want intimate conversations, someone who gets excited about their own interests and actually wants to hear about mine too. I like to match that energy, and love passionate people.

A little about me I am 27, bisexual, Black cis woman, 5'5", fat, left-leaning, based in the USA. I love video games, trying to get more into physical crafts and reading again, I have just started learning game dev/ coding in my free time and that’s been really interesting. Some video games I’ve been playing are: FFXIV (currently a little past heavensward rn), Marvel Rivals, plenty of puzzle games, two point museum, but I have tons of games in general. I sometimes like to weave spicy play with game play too, I am a wonderful heal/tank slut. 😇

I want someone who can take charge, confidence and being able to tell me what you want is so attractive to me. But I am also looking for someone who knows when to just be soft and present when I'm not in that headspace. I love the princess treatment: praise, attention, being made to feel special. That said, a little degradation sprinkled in goes a long way for me. Less mean, more condescending in that fond, teasing way. Like you can't believe how little I know and you find it a little pathetic and a little adorable at the same time. That specific energy does things to me.

Fair warning though, I do have a bit of a bratty side. Nothing unmanageable, but I might need a little convincing sometimes. Very much looking for someone who can handle that with a firm hand and a smile.

I'm into most kinky things and happy to talk through specifics, but the vibe I'm chasing is someone who is able to turn my brain off. I'm looking for someone patient enough to get me there, who leads with care and intention. Someone who pays attention to what I say and actually remembers it. If you can go multiple times in one night, literal heaven as someone who can be quite needy.