31 Nerdy, Chubby, Submissive and looking for a fun, kinky partner for a long term online affair

31 M, Bi, Married to a woman, but with a dead bedroom. We've been married for a couple of years now, but are more like roommates than lovers. I'm looking for someone to have a passionate, flirty, and kinky long term relationship with.

I'm bi, but naturally gravitate towards a much more supportive/submissive/trad fem-esque role when talking to men. This is from a sexual (d/s relationship) perspective, but also from a supportive, follow/cheerlead vs lead role. I would love to potentially explore this side of me more with you.

I'm kink friendly, and would love to help try and explore our fantasies together.

Physically, I'm Chubby, Brown (Local Origin), 5'9", 230 lbs, and have a small cock. I work in tech, and I'm into casual gaming, reading, sci-fi, and love learning new things.

I want to provide you with some of that submissive and supportive energy, so that I can pump you (lol) up to be the confident guy you are meant to be!

Would love a longer term thing - so definitely dirty and naughty - but more than just that 💞

If this sounds like something you may be interested in exploring DM me! 🩷