44 Searching for my secret lover and friend

Hello ladies, I'm a 44yr old man with kids, in a mostly dead bedroom, roommate style marriage looking to add something more into my life.

I would like to find someone in a similar situation as myself. Someone who wants more excitement, passion, and intimacy in her life. While I do like to talk throughout the day, online only is not for me.

The basics of who I'm looking for: Someone who is also married and has kids, it gives us something in common. I'm in the Twin Cities area so it is best you are as well, or close enough we can actually see eachother. Please be in your 30s or older.

Ultimately I am looking for that elusive affair where we click well and last for a long time.

I'm in good shape physically, healthy, attractive and workout regularly. I like the outdoorsy stuff and just chilling at home. Camping, horror movies, and music a few of my favorite things. Personality wise I am pretty chill and down to Earth, maybe a bit of troublemaker as well 🤫😈 I'm pretty open to trying new and different things, growing as a person.

If you're interested then let's chat and see if we hit it off together 😘