Pretty, curvy 40s woman in a mostly happy relationship. Missing spark and kink. I've done this before, my opsec is good, and I have time for this. Not afraid to catch feelings - I think it makes the whole experience that much better - but looking not changing my situation or yours.

Id like to find someone who wants to spend the time getting to know me, and I him... what makes each other tick. And do our kinks align? Trading pictures, talking about our day, sharing our lives... eventually calls, videos.

Vanilla me enjoys documentaries, horror movies, stupid comedy movies lol, hanging out with my dog, supporting my kids in sports. Im on a health and fitness journey and would love to find someone who can cheer me through that!

Kinky me is submissive. Not overly into pain. more the mental connection and submission. Spanking, choking, restraint. Some daddy Dom stuff really gets me going, if you are into that.

Im a bit picky, so dont take offense if we dont click. I have done this before and quite successfully.... im hoping I can get that lucky twice!