(F32 ) Guys.. guys... what are you doing?

Long time, female lurker here and I have made some observations I'd like to share....

I mean this with the utmost respect so if you're easily offended, then maybe you should be reading this?

1. I understand that the ratio of males to females is skewed. However, I also know that a lot of women read a few posts before they make that brave step to post or send a reply. I have been lurking and the same 5 guys pretty much recycle the same post. We aren't idiots. We can recognize usernames.

2. Ghosting sucks and I'm sorry. It is so tricky to tell a guy "hey, you're not attractive. Sorry". It also sucks to ghost people. I don't know what the right answer here is but I do want to acknowledge it happens.

3. The posts that bitch about their wives or their general life are a little cringey. If you are that open about it in your post, I imagine you'd be like that when we chat.

4. Be thoughtful in your post. I guess this goes back to point 1. Why spend so much time on a post if no one is going to respond? True, but you're more likely to catch a response. Just saying.

5. If you DO respond to a woman, one sentence or two just ain't gonna cut it. There needs to be something there to respond to at least.

I could go on but I'm anticipating people will be unhappy with my post. So... good luck and stay safe!