It was never a phase

About me, I'm 43 and in the good old PNW and married with 2 lovely (most of the time) kiddos. I've been married about 15 years and have no desire in changing that, but things have been lacking for me for awhile, and seem to have gotten worse over time. People change and relationships change. It’s unfortunate but it happens to the best of us. I'm about 6ft, average build, blond hair, blue eyes, some scruff, and some tattoos.

On the weekends, you can usually find me trying to catch up on the never ending "honey do" list, as well as all the house projects that I can never seem to stay caught up on. But I also don't mind it, because that means I can sneak outside for a beer and quiet time to myself while I "work on the yard." Speaking of beer, I love going to local breweries. Bonus points if they are kid friendly. Yes, I'm that Dad at the brewery letting their kids run amok while I try to enjoy a little bit of adult time. I also enjoy most sports but football is my favorite by far. Let’s hope for a repeat! I'm also a bit of nerd and I like to work on random electronics (mostly video game stuff) in the garage when I can find a bit of time to myself. I'm fairly educated and have a bachelors and masters degree. Oh! I'm also an Eagle Scout, which I'm sure is a big panty dropper. I also enjoy being outdoors, and though I know it's a been a point of contention on this sub, I do like to hike and camp.

I'm rambling, but this is what I'm looking for....

\* Someone that has a sense of humor and is easy to talk to.

\* You send me all the memes. Bonus points if you say fuck a lot.

\* You are in the PST time zone and open to meeting up at some point.

\* Ideally, you have kids too, because being a parent is hard and it's nice to have someone to talk to about that stuff.

\* Tattoos and piercings are attractive to me, but not a deal breaker at all.

\* Intelligence is fucking sexy

\* I lean liberal and prefer you to be the same

\* You don't mind getting dirty

\* At some point, you were into the whole emo thing. Maybe you still are. Maybe you’ll go to some concerts with me.

\* Also, boobs

I think that this is probably long enough, but I hope to hear from you if you are out there!