Just rambling my thoughts(super long)

This sub is entertaining at least! I’m typically a lurker.

I’ve been here before, this isn’t my first rodeo.
It is funny how some men(not all) seem to think if us women want an online only thing then we shouldn’t care about certain things like looks or other criteria that we may find attractive.
I’ve basically been told before in so many words “well if it’s only online then why does it matter what I look like” “ well if we’re never going to meet- why does such&such matter”

Because it does! I’m already taken! And I have all the right in the world to be as picky as I want to be. I literally have no time frame either.

It’s also a bit hysterical that some of the same men who are saying looks don’t matter and all that- won’t even send a face pic and then they are some of the most desperate ones who get butt hurt if they aren’t replied to a in certain way or certain amount of time.

Be chill! This is “just for fun”…right guys?
Most all men are “looking for a fun, flirty woman”.
I’m not a sex doll! No on demand sexting here!
They follow up with “if i needed sex- I wouldn’t be online” but that’s all they want is nudes and sex talk. lol GO TO onlyfans!!! Or look at porn or something 🤣 trust me there are other avenues that are free and require less effort!

Also, don’t lie to yourselves-no one wants to even just chat with someone they think is unattractive. If it were in person, the first thing you notice is looks- it is what hooks and pulls someone in. May be shallow but it’s true because you don’t know the person so all you have to go off of is what you do know which is what you can see.

Now- I have found a select few super amazing men here. Who weren’t only about sexual stuff. And yes- there are some sexy as fuck men here! They’re sneaky and hiding(I’ve found some!) like SO hot- they shouldn’t be here.

My biggest thing is don’t be desperate. Desperation is such a giant turn off! Especially, since most of us here do have other options.
We’re all here for some of the same reasons: seeking validation, attention, acceptance, etc. maybe an escape from a mundane life? These are things that are nice to have but not necessary.