[Success] Found my soulmate on here :)

I didn't know love like this existed. I met the kindest soul on here and we got married this weekend!

A few months ago, I came across this site and reading through the posts has been a fun experience, after spending some time being single and learning to live on my own. I rarely responded to the posts, it was more of a comfort knowing there are people out there looking for similar things in life as I did. I wasn't hoping for anything, hopefully a good friend, maybe someone to game with now and then would've been nice.

So I respond to my boyfriend's post in September, and sparks fly. On a boring work day, I felt fucking ALIVE after years of wanting to just go to sleep. The conversation flowed naturally, somehow even with our differences, we found similarities so close to our core personalities that we couldn't ignore.

The very next day, we spend the night on the phone like teenagers, and as someone who does not enjoy talking on the phone, that was the first conversation where I didn't feel like I had to put on a persona to match someone. I felt comfortable and confident being myself, because my energy was finally being matched. We literally on the same Freakuency.

2 days later, I book a train to spend the weekend with him. We live in the same country (WHAT ARE THE CHANCES?!) he is in the north and I am from the south. Meeting him felt like home. We saw eachother at the train station and we ran and held eachother for as long as we could. He is even more beautiful than the pictures, his eyes happy, his smile making my heart skip a beat. He held me and I felt safe. All through the weekend we connected, we talked for hours, he made me food. With each passing day, we find that we have 1 brain cell between us- we make the same weird noises at the same time, we say the same things at the same time and be stunned that our brains are somehow bluetooth connected. I am in awe of how mature he is and how we deal with conflitcs in a way where it feels like a conversation rather than a fight. We spend time holding hands, watching the stars and just exist.

Going back home felt wrong. We slept together on discord while we were apart, and come december, I moved in with him.

And now, I am his wife. I have found my person, my best friend, my favourite chef, my gaming partner, my debate mate, my cuddle buddy, my husband.