32 Is anyone else actually neglected here?

I’ve been browsing this sub for awhile. I’ve talked to enough men that I have been surprised at the amount who post on naughty from neglect who aren’t in dead bedrooms. Active sex lives. They love their wife and she is their best friend. I’m still uncertain about what they are doing here (boredom, hobby fucking, ego stroking?) but it’s such a common theme I’m starting to wonder if I am in the wrong sub.

Then I thought maybe it would be easier to cut to the chase and ask for what I’m hoping to find. I’m in a withering marriage and would like to find someone who is as well. I aspire to being able to build a real relationship with someone. One that is filled with affection and desire. A deep connection of mind, heart, and body that we aren’t getting at home. I will be hungry for you and I want that in return. I want us to be that oasis in the desert for one another.

Who am I? I’m 32. I live near central IL. Pale skinned, chestnut hair, and bright blue eyes. Neither thin nor obese...voluptuous by definition but using that word to describe myself makes me cringe. Equal parts smart, silly, sweet, and sensual. I enjoy adventure and new experiences. 10/10 listening skills on deck. All those thoughts you have running through your head all day that you think nobody would care about? I want to listen to every word.

Who am I not? I’m not cheap or easy. I’m not an endless stream of nudes. I’m not a hotel meet before we’ve even shared a meal together. I’m not NSA. I’m not a fuck buddy. I understand this would be an affair but I don’t believe that either one of us should settle for being treated as less than. RespeOntario, interest, affection, and kindness are important to me. And I always give as good as I get.

Who should you be? Male is my preference. Hopefully located somewhat near to me. I’m not opposed to some travel at all but I’d like the opportunity to be together in person with some regularity. Somewhere between 30-50. Smart is sexy. As is funOntario. I am drawn to masculinity, however you choose to define that for yourself. Body type isn’t super important to me although I prefer that dad-bod (a phrase almost as cringe inducing as voluptuous) or a bigger man.

If any of this strikes a nerve send me a note!