Would you like to lose control?

Is your life a bit vanilla? Maybe everything is good, health, and you can’t complain but gosh darn it you’d like a bit more flavor. Are you constantly having to manage 1000 things at once? Maybe you just want to shut off, give in, and let someone take control for a bit?

I’ve been exploring my dominant side and BDSM over the past few years. I’m looking for a curious person with a submissive side to build something real and something fun. I like to take things slow, get to know each other, and let things grow naturally. Hopefully we start with pleasant(and possibly a bit flirty) conversations. Then over time as trust builds in one another, we can develop a naughty and exciting dynamic.

I’m looking for someone who’s curious about submission and wants to start gently. Someone willing to do simple tasks(when you become comfortable), check in regularly, and be honest about their limits. Ideally you are someone who wants to slowly give up control as trust grows.

I will expect honesty and openness. I hope we can achieve a point where we can confide in one another. Trust on both ends is key. Hopefully you are someone who enjoys chatting and having fun and or deep conversations. The goal is for you to be comfortable enough to completely let go and trust that you’re in good hands.

To let you know a bit about me. I’m 42 M. I love art and drawing. I also love hiking and outdoorsy stuff. I read a lot of self help type books which I think gives me a good knowledge base for the life couching type aspects of a D/s relationship. In whatever other free time I have I really like to watch horror movies. Especially cheesy slashers. I’m also a big heavy metal fan.

As far as looks go. I’m 5’10”, very white, I shave my head and have a longish beard. I tend to wear jeans and plaid shirts, sort of a lumberjack look. I’ve been going to the gym seriously for a few years now and I’m in good shape.

If you are interested send me a message with bit about yourself.